Sitting my the pool in Lombok, with grazed knees, watery eyes and hair that was falling out in chunks from the massive IVF-miscarriage hormone crash, I had a giant realisation...
I literally could not face another cycle without first becoming emotionally well.
All the while I 'thought' I had been coping, but this low level anxiety was slowly building inside me until my miscarriage when I just crumbled.
It felt like I had set out for a quick jog around the block, yet here I was years later stuck in a marathon that had no end, sorely unprepared, utterly drained and praying every moment of the day that the finish line was near.
As I hung on for dear life, desperately holding my breath that *this* was the cycle (it never was), I sank lower and lower.
Looking back now, if I have one thing I wished I'd done differently, it would have been to seek help sooner.
Maybe you've reached your breakdown moment (like I had), or maybe you've just decided to call enough is enough and are feeling empowered to take back your life, your joy and your control instead of martyring yourself for a baby.
That's where I can help.
Not only do I have street cred experience, but I am now one of the most highly regarded global life coaches for women trying to conceive.
Over the years, I've helped hundreds of women through my online programs to feel calmer, more empowered and 360° uplevel their lives.
And I get it... online courses and programs are great - but sometimes you feel like you need to go direct to the source and receive customised support and a personal hand guiding you through.
(P.S. private coaching is usually how I roll too :-))
IS THIS YOU?
Some of the reasons clients come to me for private coaching...
You're feeling stuck...
It feels like nothing is working and you're stuck on the emotional rollercoaster of infertility.... and not really sure of what direction to take next...
There are big (and scary) decisions on the horizon...
Deep down you have the feeling that something big needs to happen (whether that's moving onto IVF, considering a different path to parenthood... or even just getting your head around the possibility of a childfree life (and whether joy can exist there).
It's time to get back to you
Maybe you've reached rock bottom, or maybe you've just had enough of trying to conceive sucking up your brain space, your energy and your joy. It's time to get yourself back.
You're stuck in the fog and (desperately need a hand out)...
You feel like you're stuck in a muddy fog and everything (your work, your relationships, your health) is now being sucked into the TTC vortex and spiralling downward. You need a circuit breaker, fast.
Imagine this for a second...
- 1Once a week, you wake up feeling excited and energised because you have a call, direct with me. In this beautiful time together, you feel held, validated, supported and most of all, like you're making leaps and bounds ahead.
- 2Instead of everything spiralling down, everything in your life is on the up. Each week, things get easier and better and you're handling setbacks and pivots in a radically different way than before. This is, hands down, the best investment you've ever made.
- 3You have everything you need at your fingertips, and know that, even after our time together, you have all the resources and ongoing support you need.
You taught me so much in a very short period of time through our one on one zoom sessions.
You have been such an inspiration to me. You are a fellow soul sister who has walked in the same shoes of heart ache and desperation on the road to having a baby. & you call it how it is.
That’s what I loved most working with you on my journey. You called everything as it is, no dancing around issues just upfront, black and white called it and made me face my shit head on and do something about it. Others I’ve approached to help me have never truly understood my journey or made me feel like they get it. You did. In a long, drawn out devastating process you showed me reason and navigated my course. You helped me from a 360 degree wholistic lens which others can’t or don’t do.
Others I’ve seen don’t feel as genuine or have as much integrity. It’s like they say what they think “we” want to hear or need to hear. You are different you share guidance or advice but relate it to your own personal experience which feels so much more authentic, real & relatable.
You also worked with me on all aspects of my life coaching me through challenging work situations & how to get my Husband to think getting a cleaner is a good idea. (We still have that cleaner months later too - thank you)! All the peripheral life stuff (clutter) you were able to help me manage, which in turn made my fertility journey clearer and more focused.
I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
You taught me so much in a very short period of time through our one on one zoom sessions. I’ve literally recommended you to every friend or family member I’ve come in contact when the topic of fertility has arisen.
When we work together, you don't just receive calls with me, you also receive ongoing access to tools, resources and support to help you keep kicking goals.
8 Week 1:1 Private Coaching
Over this time we'll have 6 calls together (1 x 90 minute deep dive plus 5 x 45 minute sessions) where you and I have the opportunity to help you make leaps and bounds in the way you're feeling and your experience of life.
During our 8 weeks, you'll also have unlimited access directly to me via email and Messenger to help you through the wobbles, and celebrate all the wins. You've got me in your corner, 24/7.
The Reset Transformational Program
You'll receive ongoing access to my 6 week transformational program, The Reset.
Whilst you don't need to complete all the modules during our time together, this will be here for you when we finish, and while we're working together, may have times when I'll refer you to particular worksheets or exercises to help you uncover blocks and stories, and find your joy again.
You'll also receive full and ongoing access to Fully Supported where you'll find an unparalleled wealth of resources from a meditations vault to sleep steps, guest expert interviews to mini programs.
And... this program comes with weekly group support calls, monthly goal setting calls and a beautiful and supportive Facebook Community.
Once our 1:1 time has finished, you'll love having this ongoing support at your fingertips.
Get Pregnant Pronto Pack
This bundle has helped hundreds of fertility warriors to support their fertility, advocate at their fertility clinic and understand (and troubleshoot) next steps for their fertility.
With a workshop and a giant bundle of resources - this pack will give you clues and ideas for next steps.
WHY COACHING WITH ME, IS DIFFERENT
- 1I not only have the street cred of walking through my own infertility journey that involved IUI, IVF, ICSI and pregnancy loss, as well as secondary infertility - but... I'm qualified - as both a certified Life Coach and certified Mind Body Practitioner. You may not realise this, but life coaching and fertility coaching are unregulated, so almost anyone can call themselves a life or fertility coach (with or without undertaking any qualifications, exams or formal coaching training).
- 2I am also the coach to the coaches. I lead a group of nearly 700 fertility and life coaches, acupuncturists, naturopaths and other practitioners, and am the go-to coach in the industry for them too.
- 3I only take on a very limited amount of clients, so you can be assured that you'll be treated like a VIP, every step of the way. You'll have my full attention, and I'll be there, walking alongside you as you kick goals and uplevel your life.
- 4Coaching with me isn't once and done, you'll have ongoing access via thousands of dollars worth of programs, that include live coaching, feedback, support and resources to additionally support you whilst we are together, but more importantly, for the long-term once we're done. No more wondering if you'll crash as soon as coaching is over and feeling all of a sudden like you're left on your own. I've got you covered.
* $997/month x 2 months USD *
Total value $4,758
Frequently Asked Questions
Nope. And I recommend it's just us for the first session, but for subsequent sessions, they are most welcome to attend, provided that it's in everyone's best interest (and I'll let you know if, as we progress, I feel that we should do some more individual sessions).
The vast majority of my clients prefer to work with me solo.
You can be anywhere on your journey, doing or not doing anything.
Nope, not at all. My life coaching perfectly complements therapy.
Some people prefer therapy.
Some people prefer coaching.
Some people like doing both.
It's very personal - and you'll only know if you give it a go!
It's not. My services are privately billed. But that also means that, I can support women across the globe.
It also means that - I can often see you sooner than a therapist, and also that I can provide you with wrap around and 24/7 support with access to me between sessions as well as access to my resources, fellow resident expert coaches and support groups.
I presently have two places available, although my schedule fills fast.
I always say that the best time is now because honestly... it is.
The number one regret I hear from clients is that they *wished* they'd signed up earlier.
This is a very personal decision.
If you're a self starter - then you may wish to start with The Reset and see how you go.
Some people just want intensive support, the fast track and the personal feedback you can only receive via 1:1 coaching - for those people, you'll want to apply to coach with me.
I don't, and I'd highly encourage you not to work with any coaches who offer this either, as I don't feel it's always in your best interest.
Aside from feeling in the dark about how many sessions you'll *actually* need, what I see happen frequently is one of two scenarios:
You sign up for a single session, and there just isn't enough time to get to the root of any issues
You sign up to a single session - and there's so much to discuss, it's overwhelming and too much to take in and action.
Either way - both end up leaving you at square one.
Coaching together also isn't just about the sessions - it's about the wrap around support, additional tools and resources too which are arguably just as valuable.
Cool! If you hit apply - you'll be directed to a form which has space for any and all additional questions you have :-)
I typically work between 7.00am - 2.00pm, Monday - Thursday (AWST Perth), with some wriggle room to work a little later on some days.
This works out at:
7.00pm - 2.00am New York
Midnight - 7.00am London
This usually works out well for most clients because it means I can chat to you before or after work (which means you don't need to stress about missing work and catching up later).
Oh, and come as you are! PJ's, top buns and cups of tea TOTALLY welcome ;-)