There were days on my infertility journey when I wanted to crawl into a hole...
I had some very low days on my fertility journey.
Days when I'd bump into [yet another] acquaintance who'd fallen pregnant, Sat through baby showers at work. Opened up Facebook to a feed filled with happy announcements.
The days when I'd be a crying mess on the bathroom floor because once again, the test was negative.
And all I could ever think was how busy the fertility clinic was, yet how I'd never felt so alone in my whole life.
I was obsessed with my journey (how could I not be?) but I was coming apart at the seems because it was on my mind 24/7.
I felt desperate. Alone. Hopeless. Tired.
I just needed a cheerleader.
Someone who understood what I was going through and could support me, without needing a Science lesson or saying the wrong thing. I was desperate to find someone to could fill me with hope and positivity about the possibilities ahead.
I knew deep down that I was strong, but somewhere along the line, I'd got lost.
I just needed a boost of strength, confidence and warrior spirit.
Does this sound like you? If so, I can help.
A deep dive session get to the root of what's keeping you down and give you a quick sticks injection of hope, positivitiy and fighting spirit.... from someone who get's it!
PLUS an action plan to help you move forward feeling confident, calm and empowered.
A quick boost might be all you need to get back on the wagon.
You and I have an unrushed, heartfelt and soulful 90 minute chat, deep diving into what the what is going on in your mind, and work out a plan to turn the ship around, fast.
I am all about ACTION, and together we'll work out what steps you can take to overcome the hurdles holding you back.
You come away from the call feeling more confident with letting go, positive about the future and empowered with an action plan and next steps to follow in managing your journey to becoming a mumma.
Armed with strategies to help you let go of your tight grip of control and help you ride the waves wherever they take you.
Feeling positive about the possibilities ahead and energised about taking the next step.
Empowered with the knowledge you've been seeking, and confident about how to take the next leap.
Incredibly relieved because you've just been able to download to someone who *finally* gets it
After you've signed up, you'll be sent an email with details of how you can book your appointment, as well as some questions to answer beforehand. This gives me an understanding before our call of where I can help.
We catch up over Zoom (a video conferencing platform) and your call is recorded, so that you can listen to it again if you need to. My other coaching programs are 6 weeks and 3 months because there is A LOT I can cover, so in this once-off program, we work quickly!
Then, following our call, I'll upload the recording into a private and secure vault which only you and I have access to, along with PDFs and other resource I believe would be helpful to you, so that you can implement what we've talked about after our call.
If after our chat, you decide that you'd like to work with me again, you will receive a discount on my other programs.
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Hi, I’m Robyn Birkin, a fertility coach, motivational speaker, writer and fertility warrior. I’ve made it my mission to ensure that women don’t suffer through infertility and trouble conceiving like I did. This is the program I wish I had when I was in the depths of despair.
Did you know that the stress of infertility has been shown to be the same as that of a cancer diagnosis? Yup, it’s true!
I’m also the host of the Fertility Warriors Podcast. At the end of 2011, hubby and I went on a whirlwind round the world trip, and when we returned, decided that it was time to start a family. Cue sexy lingerie, and lots of getting frisky, and then…. nothing. Month after month, we suffered the incredible lows that trying to conceive brought with it, until we landed at a fertility clinic. A multitude of tests, the complete loss of all dignity, OHSS, IUI, IVF, ICSI and a miscarriage left me battered and bruised (literally! #deminjections), but determined that here had to be a better way. So, I set about researching and devouring as much as I could about how to survive trauma, I went on a soul recharging trip to the back of beyond in Lombok, I connected with some of the best online guru’s around, and pretty much reached into the depths of my being to pull myself out of my funk, and came out a badass warrior who literally felt like I could take on the world.
And I did. Two years later, I was back on the saddle on a mission to ride this rollercoaster again and have a second child. We fell pregnant with our last embryo, but I had a pregnancy and childbirth that others would only describe in one word: traumatic. The short version is that I needed to race to the hospital and later woke up in critical care, missing my uterus and most of my cervix. Ya, that happened.
But you know what? I learnt my shit the first time around, and know how to give shitty situations the middle finger, so instead of feeling deeply traumatised, I'm actually feeling pretty good. And pretty lucky. Yep, lucky.
And today, I have two beautiful girls, Chloe and Olivia, as well as some of the most valuable life skills and mental habits, and I want the same for you.