Rediscover yourself and reclaim your life while you're trying to conceive
No more pre-pregnancy test anxiety
No more around-the-clock stress
No more rapid grief-hope cycle exhaustion
“This is what I needed to get myself back on track and feeling good about myself again.
While [trying to conceive] is an important part of my life, I realized it's not the only part of my life.
I'm going into my second IVF cycle refreshed and feel like I've done everything I could to feel positive about it. And I also know how to handle the emotions that will come along with it.
Thank you, I am truly appreciative and grateful!
Genifer, United States
A question for women who feel like they're at the mercy of their infertility:
What if your journey to conceive didn't come with overwhelming anxiety, endless stress and exhausting cyclical grief?
You know, the kind of anxiety that makes your skin prickle while you’re waiting for the doctor to call.
The kind of stress that keeps you up at night wondering if you’re on the right diet or taking the right supplements.
The kind of grief that makes your eyes fill with tears at 2 pm on a regular Wednesday.
Not to mention the feeling of being totally and utterly alone, even if your partner is fully supportive.
Oh and the awkward smiles you have to put on when your friends (who all have families) ask you how things are going and you say “Good.”…What if you could take all of that away and feel like yourself again while you’re trying to conceive?
Well... one thing's for sure.
You'd say good riddance to the Fertility Thought Spiral of Doom
The one that goes like this:
“I’m trying everything the doctor recommended. How much longer is this going to take?”
“I’m running out of time. I can practically hear my own biological clock ticking”
“I should’ve taken better care of my body when I was younger”
“Even my grocery store cashier is expecting.
Everyone is pregnant except me.”
“I’m NEVER going to become a mom, am I?”
And you'd wave hello, gorgeous to a life where you:
- Wake up in the morning refreshed and excited to take on the day—whether you’re going to work or exploring outdoors with your pup
- Feel mentally, physically, and emotionally good—like, truly and deeply well from the inside out.
- Go to your neighbor’s baby shower and have a genuinely good time watching her open her gifts
- Have a picnic with your partner without constantly thinking about your next embryo transfer
- Are able to handle setbacks, failed cycles, and negative tests with a calm, positive outlook
Sound a little too good to be true?
ah, that's fair.
Especially if you’ve been asking Dr. Google for advice for months (or years!) with no results.
Or if you’ve already shelled out extra money for acupuncture treatments that didn’t give you the results you were hoping for.
Or if you tried a guided meditation after your doctor suggested it but got itchy and frustrated halfway through and deleted the app.
The truth is, you can reclaim your life even if you're smack dab in the middle of trying to conceive.
But here’s the deal.
What you don’t need is another fertility cleanse or mayan abdominal massage (although if those things are your jam, rock on!)
What you do need is a little brain science to help you pump the brakes on the emotional turmoil surrounding fertility and create rock-solid coping strategies so you can get back to being YOU.
I’m talking about a set of tools and action items that’ll help you truly navigate what’s going on in your mind.
No magic wands. No wishful thinking. Just good old reliable brain science and practical tools.
Wondering where you can find something like that?
Welcome to ...
The go-at-your-own-pace course to ditch stress and anxiety, recenter yourself, and invite joy back into your TTC journey
Inside The Reset, you'll get proven + practical tools to navigate your fertility journey without losing your marbles in the process
Ditch chronic stress & anxiety around trying to conceive
Feel grounded no matter what the outcome of your next test
Take care of your mind & physical body so you’re happy and healthy
Find your inner calm so you can *actually* cope through the storm
Trust the process so you’re energized instead of drained 24/7
Reconnect with your partner, friends and family and feel supported
My clients celebrate big wins like these...
“I can’t believe the transformation.
I had a follow-up appointment with our specialist yesterday and she said you are a different person sitting in front of me in comparison to 9 months ago.
This is despite the fact we are sitting there because we had been unsuccessful in our IVF but I truly was ok.
I could have a rational conversation and make a plan for our frozen transfer and then potentially another IVF round if needed and again I am so ok with this.”
“Now I’m in such a good head-space, it feels incredible. I have never felt so at peace.
I trust my journey and feel more connected with my body, mind, soul and faith than I have in a long time.
Before starting the program, I was angry, sad, often stressed and anxious. I couldn't bear to see pregnant women on social media, in stores, anywhere. I would leave the store and cry in my car.
I knew I needed to change my mindset and get out of the funk. It wasn't the type of person I am or wanted to be.
Fast forward to today, I feel strong, happy, healthy, safe, optimistic and pure love and joy. How I handle every situation has changed.
Very grateful for this program. It was a big part of helping me develop such a strong mindset.”
Jamie O, Canada
“I now feel hopeful. I’ve learned how to enjoy life during this really tough journey. Would I recommend this program? YES!
I have a better mindset. I’m calmer. I feel like I'm not alone. I feel like there are others out there doing this, and I can handle it. I've learned how to control the things I can control and to just accept the things I cannot control.
I've learned how to bring back things into my life that brought me joy. I've learned how to get out of sad/ frustrating situations faster.
Before I was isolated and depressed. I felt helpless and was really mad, very angry this was happening to us.
Now I still have episodes of feeling helpless or sad/ mad but they are in appropriate settings and only last briefly.”
Elizabeth, United States
Want to know how they did it?
Take a look at the path to reset your mind and body while you're trying to conceive
It's time to press pause and rediscover who you are.
In Phase 1, you’ll discover how to shift your brain’s automatic anxiety, stress, and guilt responses so you can take control of your fertility journey instead of feeling lost in it.
Feel It to Heal It: Accept and honor your emotions to truly heal
Change Your Mind: Shift the way your brain works (for good!)
100 Percent Possible: Discover the secret to stepping back into control
Rediscovering You: Reconnect with YOU and nurture the best version of yourself
You'll emerge firmly in the driver's seat of your life again—no matter what next month holds for you
Now you’re grounded in YOU—ahhh, I bet that feels good—and you’re ready to replenish your energy, create space for joy, and let go of the negative emotions that are making trying to conceive harder than it has to be.
Energy Drains and Gains: Create energy to expand your capacity
Create Space: Declutter your mind to make room for more peace, calm, and joy
The Terrible Triangle: Letting go of jealousy, guilt, and perfectionism
Magic Energy Reset Rituals: Mini routine shifts to replenish your energy—even when you’re uber busy
You’ll wrap up Phase 2 fully revitalized with a new toolkit of daily rituals to help you stay energized as you’re trying to conceive (and beyond!)
In Phase 3 you’ll discover true self confidence, deep-rooted self love, and a renewed sense of gratitude and excitement for life alongside your TTC journey.
- Feeling Fabulous: Put your positivity on autopilot
- This One Life: Embrace where you are right now, even if things are messy and uncertain
- Pause for Applause: Celebrate your wins no matter how small
- Dream It to Feel It: Joy and peace through visualization
You’ll emerge from Phase 3 feeling renewed from the inside out
Plus, get a whole heap of bonuses you can dive into right now - for free
Reconnect with your Partner Program
Trying to conceive can slowly eat away at our relationships. In this workshop you’ll reignite your connection with your partner so you feel deeply connected again
Save My Sleep Workshop
Struggling to fall asleep at night? Or waking up at 4 am with anxiety?
You’ll discover how to get quality shut-eye so your mind and body are always well rested
Get out of your Head and Into the Game
Get the inside scoop on the brain-mind connection so you can modify your thinking patterns and take the power away from the intrusive thoughts that are keeping you stuck in fear, shame, and guilt
Calm in the Storm Meditation
Find strength and resilience as you’re trying to conceive
Welcome Womb Meditation
Feel calm, grounded, and hopeful as you navigate the two-week wait
Weekly Email Check-Ins with Robyn
Get weekly check-ins from Robyn so you can ask questions and get support when you need it most
You can get back to a place of joy - yep, even while you're still trying to conceive.
These women are proof
Ready to ditch the stress, anxiety and monthly cycles of hope and grief?
Join The Reset and get access to the bundle of tools and support that have already helped hundreds of women reclaim their lives on their journey to conceive.
A transformational 6 week program for women navigating infertility, loss and TTC
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In case we haven't already met...
G'Day! I'm Robyn Birkin
CERTIFIED HOLISTIC LIFE COACH AND MIND BODY PRACTITIONER
And supporting women as they navigate fertility and infertility is my jam.
Because not too long ago I was exactly where you are.
I was trying to conceive but no matter how many to-do lists I made, or how much spinach I ate, or how many blog articles I read…
I found myself staring at a negative pregnancy test.
Then came the doctor visits, the IUIs, the IVF cycles, the ICSI…
Fast forward a few years and my life had shrunk down to a series of “please let this be my month” prayers, which were always followed by weeks and weeks of grief.
I couldn’t focus at work, I stopped seeing most of my friends, and my hair was falling out in clumps.
Infertility had left me a shadow of my former self.
Until I decided if I didn’t put my own wellbeing first, everything else in my life would sink away.
I worked on my mind. I opened myself up to receiving help. I practiced rooting myself in the moment.
And, most importantly, I studied how to shift my thought patterns and invite more joy into my messy, imperfect, beautiful journey to conceive.
I gave up on Google and studied the science-backed stuff. I learned from trial and error. And I gave myself a lot of grace.
And when I had another failed cycle? It was like night and day.
I had the confidence and the calm to conceive baby number 2 (with the help of ICSI) without losing myself in the middle of everything.
That’s why I’m on a mission to support women with deep emotional wellness strategies so they can tackle their own conception journeys with grace, grit, and gratitude.
Because you don’t have to white-knuckle your way through trying to conceive.
You don’t have to wake up with anxiety or feel absolutely gutted month over month.
I promise you that.
Happiness, fulfillment, joy… you are worthy of all of those things NOW.
And if you’re with me, I can’t wait to share *everything* I know about how to reclaim your life and rediscover yourself while you're trying to conceive.
Still not sure you + The Reset are a hot match?
If you can not your head YES to any of the following, consider it a match made in digital heaven
You're ready to hightail it out of the TTC funk, but just need a helping hand to pull you up
You’re ready for an evidence-based solution and practical tips that work
You want to live a happy, healthy life no matter what happens next month
You want more control on this journey
You want to move forward feeling empowered, calm, and centered
You don’t want more cookie-cutter advice you can find on Google
On the other hand, The Reset isn't for you if...
You’re just looking to check off another ‘get pregnant’ to-do list item
You want a silver bullet or quick fix
You aren’t presently trying to conceive or get pregnant
Maybe you’ve counted yourself in above, but you’re crossing your fingers and thinking…
“But once I get pregnant, all of my anxiety and fears will melt away… right?”
The truth is, that’s not always the case.
For many women, pregnancy brings a whole new set of challenges, and old patterns of anxiety and stress can easily crop up.
Plus, I always say it’s best to plan for the worst and hope for the best.
Maybe next month is your month. Huzzah!
But maybe it isn’t. And that’s okay!
Which means trying to hold on *just a little longer* is only keeping you in a state of emotional limbo and heartache.
The Reset equips you with the tools to reclaim your life now.
So you can count on yourself to be the best and healthiest version of you no matter what the future holds.
Oh! And just so we're clear...
The Reset isn't another airy-fairy woo-woo, manifestation class
(No shade—those can be great tools!)
Everything you’ll learn in the Reset is firmly rooted in evidence-based techniques that support stress relief, quality of life, and (bonus alert) fertility.
We’re here to get your brain working for you, instead of against you so you can try to conceive without feeling like the world has been reduced to a single pregnancy result.
Here are a few other things that make the Reset one-of-a-kind
Other TTC Programs
Use methods that aren’t fully backed by science or formal qualifications (i.e. they rely on guesswork, Google and wishful thinking)
Is specially designed to support the emotional and mental health of women who are trying to conceive
Revoke access after a few weeks or months
Uses a proven, brain-based approach that includes mindfulness, metacognition techniques, and nurturing relationships
Can cost four figures (or more) or require you to attend sessions over a number of months
Includes lifetime access so you can circle back to the material whenever you need or want to
Aren't time-zone or 'busy-life' friendly.
Is taught by Robyn (me, hi!) who has been exactly where you are. And who drops the f bomb pretty regularly. Buckle up, it’s bound to be a ride.
Helps you reclaim your life in just 30 minutes a week
Runs you the same amount of $$ as one single session with a fertility coach or therapist and delivers transformative results in just 6 weeks
You're welcome to buy it, try it and apply it
Your purchase is protected by a 7-day money-back guarantee
“My go-to for everyone, is to use Robyn's programs"
As a fertility specialist, patients are often asking me what to do to cope with the grief of infertility and failed treatment. It’s something that doesn’t get enough attention.
My go to for everyone, is to use Robyn Birkin’s programs. She is truly an amazing person and coach when it comes to learning how to deal with stress and emotionally complex situations. She is a holistic life coach but is always aligning with evidence based practices, which is something so important from a physician perspective. I often lean on her for all fertility and non-infertility related things and she really helps to ground me.
She is the ultimate listener and has so much incredible wisdom to share! Robyn’s programs are an AMAZING resource and tool to help you educate yourself and cope with your infertility struggles. I highly recommend them for anyone dealing with infertility.
Sasha Hakman MD/MS, Board certified Obstetrician Gynecologist and board certifiable Reproductive Endocrinology & Infertility specialist
“Even if you aren't experiencing infertility you should do this program. I haven't even finished it yet but it's already improved my life exponentially.
This curriculum has the power to change your life. It's been absolutely phenomenal. Life changing. So grateful for this program.”
“I feel like I've gotten my life back, and I'm rediscovering that there's a lot more to me than just fertility treatment.
When I joined this Reset, I was not in a good place. I felt like I had gotten so stuck and that my life had become all about fertility treatments. I felt like I didn't have any interests anymore!
The modules and worksheets are hard work in that they force you to contemplate a lot of difficult questions about yourself, but it is so worth the effort and cost of the program. “
JG, Pennsylvania, USA
“I feel like the fog around me has lifted a bit and I'm starting to feel more like myself again and generally more balanced and optimistic.
Robyn's resources have helped me dig into my feelings and source of stress.
“So, so worth it. The Reset Programs have been a lifeline for me, and have helped me feel steadier, calmer and more myself through this tricky season of my life.
It’s helped me form better self-care habits, and to begin to let go of narratives about myself that were no longer serving me.
I can’t recommend it more highly for anyone who’s finding TTC difficult.”
“Your health, well-being and happiness ARE the most important things! I now believe that getting those things in order can help bring that baby to you, or help you be strong enough for whatever happens.
The modules in the Reset allowed me to constructively practice things that made me feel better and set my mind in the right place whenever I felt low.
Robyn's supportive messaging is something I benefited greatly from hearing again and again. I also loved that the modules addressed so many things that seem "outside" of the subject - but completely aren't.”
Will The Reset help me get pregnant?"
And other questions!
Will the Reset help me get pregnant?
The short answer is, probably, yes. Multiple studies have shown that Mind Body programs can dramatically improve the chances of conceiving.
One popular study showed that women who undertook a Mind Body Program had a 1 in 2 chance of getting pregnant through IVF, vs 1 in 5 chance in the control group. Chronic stress has a big impact on our hormones and reproduction.
But the long answer is, please don't join to tick a box. This is not another 'get pregnant now' silver bullet (because those don’t exist) and that is not the focus of this program.
Join because you're done with feeling like sh*t. Join because you know you matter. Join because you’re ready to draw a line in the sand. To get off the hamster wheel of making to-do lists and white-knuckling your life.
Join to say yes to filling your own cup. On this journey and every other.
How are the lessons delivered?
Each week, you'll unlock two new video modules (audio versions also available) with accompanying workbooks.
The module lessons and workbooks will help you develop radical mindset shifts, self awareness, and strategies that will help you navigate the seasons of your life in a way that invites joy into your days.
How long should I set aside each week to see real results?
All you need to set aside is 15 minutes twice a week.
And if life gets in the way, you’re welcome to progress at your own pace. You have lifetime access to The Reset, so you get to go through at a pace that feels right for you.
I’m not sure this is the right time for me to join. Should I wait?
It depends. If right now’s not the right time to join because you’re busy living your best life, then sure! Join whenever feels best.
But if you’re not sure it’s the right time to join because you’re secretly hoping you’ll get pregnant next month or because you think you can sort things out on your own…
There is no better time to join than now.
The Reset will give you the tools you’ve been searching for to reclaim your life. And sometimes that’s just too important to put off any longer.
I'm worried this will be *another* wasted cost. What makes this different?
Ah, I’ve thrown around my fair share of dollar bills trying to find something—anything—to get results.
But the Reset isn’t a sunk cost like acupuncture appointments or the stack of hardcover books on your nightstand.
It’s an investment in a new TTC journey. It’s an investment in you.
After joining the Reset, you’ll be able to forge ahead with big, brave and bold decisions about your fertility journey (feeling confident and supported).
You’ll discover big areas of misalignment and make the changes to create lasting joy.
You’ll rediscover your relationships, your passions, your zest for life.
You’ll navigate the rock bottom moments with ease.
See, the Reset helps you help YOU. Which means if you follow the proven path waiting for you inside, your success is fully up to you. It’s yours to claim.
I'm super private about my journey. Is the Reset anonymous?
Yes! The Reset is a self study program with weekly email check ins from me. Nobody has to know except us :-)
Do I have to be undergoing IVF to join?
Nope! You can be at any stage of trying to conceive. Whether you've been trying for 6 months or 6 years, whether you’re 26 or 46, whether you’ve suffered loss or haven’t, all are welcome!
What happens if I get pregnant?
We will be ecstatic for you! We will happy dance and high five and shout from the rooftops. To be honest, that happens all the time.
The Reset is fully relevant to the hurdles you might face in your pregnancy journey too. So soak up all the content!
I have another question…
Don’t be shy! Email us at firstname.lastname@example.org or DM us on Instagram and we’ll get back to you within 24 business hours!
Pssttt... one more thing before you go
Remember the old you?
The one who was excited to start trying to conceive...
The one who felt unstoppable. A deep-in-your-bones go-getter...
The one who took welcomed courageous and bold steps forward in life...
The one who laughed all the time...
She is still YOU.
And if you need a little help to turn your inner bright light back on, please know you’re never alone.
For millions of women, trying to conceive is the toughest challenge of their lives.
And in case you need to hear this today:
You're not doing anything wrong. You’re not missing some secret ingredient or recipe.
You’re exactly where you need to be.
And you deserve to rediscover you and reclaim your life so you can invite joy back into your TTC journey.
Let's lighten the load and Reset, together.
Always in your corner,
Ready to reclaim your life on your journey to conceive?
Transformational 6 Week Program for women navigating infertility, loss and trying to conceive
That's a $1,926 value all yours for
Two payments of $128
USD, 2 x monthly payment payment plan
Click for Pay in Full Option (with discount)