Feeling like an emotional punching bag?
That's no way to live.
I understand, more than you know.
You feel like once upon a time you were happy, strong and resilient, but this fertility mess has sucked the life out of you.
You're used to being successful at everything you do, but here you are, a shadow of your former self because the one thing you want the most, is completely out of your control. It feels hopeless. And overwhelmingly sad. If only you had a crystal ball that would just tell you when this would all be over and you could get on with your life. But there is no crystal ball, so you're stuck in this nightmare with the demons in your head.
Your partner isn't struggling the same way you are, and hates to see you this way, but has NO idea how to help you, and then there's your friends and family who you feel like you can never openly and honestly just download to because they say the wrong thing, they can't understand the pain you're in, and every conversation leads to a science lesson. And it's on your mind. Every. Single. Minute.
Ok, so take a deep breath, and imagine what it would feel like to let go of all that stress and worry and anxiety. It would be life-changing, right?
There is no pause or repeat button on life.
So are you going to let this keep dragging you down or will you draw a line in the sand today, and decide that enough is enough. Your choice.
You can't afford NOT to.
And that's where I come in.
A six week coaching program for women who have been left battered and bruised by this fertility journey, but are now ready to regain control of their lives and pull themselves out of the darkness.
One-on-One Coaching Call and Weekly Check in Email
6 weeks of High Touch, High Care Intimate and Private Group Coaching Training
Six Week Access to a Private Vault of Guest Expert Training Modules (with the opportunity to extend later!)
A SECRET, totally fun and active Facebook Group, focused on creating BIG change
Instead of waking up in the morning wondering how the heck you're going to get through another day, you wake up feeling like strong, happy and empowered, and like you can tackle anything this journey (and life!) throws at you.
Instead of feeling like all the fear, anxiety, worry and rage is building up inside you with nobody who you can download to, you have the chance to connect with someone who not only gets it, but can help you get through it, and will connect you with a sisterhood of like minded women.
Instead of feeling like you're losing the connection with your partner, you rekindle the love and closeness you felt before, and can tap into a way to communicate with each other again.
Instead of feeling like life is passing you by, you feel peaceful, confident and happy again.
BONUS | Get Pregnant Sooner
A study by researchers from Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia, found that cognitive behavioural therapy can aid fertility by reducing anxiety, which often inhibits ovulation. A study by Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia took 16 women who had not had a period in six months. Half were introduced to cognitive behavioural therapy for 20 weeks and half were merely observed. At the end of this, six out of the eight women given CBT regained full fertility and two of them became pregnant within two months. In the eight women who didn't, only one recovered her fertility.
Another study showed that women who were undergoing IVF had a success rate of 52% when undergoing mind-body interventions (compared to only 20% in the control group).
Word on the Street...
Hi, I’m Robyn Birkin, a fertility coach, motivational speaker, writer and fertility warrior. I’ve made it my mission to ensure that women don’t suffer through infertility and trouble conceiving like I did. This is the program I wish I had when I was in the depths of despair.
Did you know that the stress of infertility has been shown to be the same as that of a cancer diagnosis? Yup, it’s true!
I’m also the host of the Fertility Warriors Podcast. At the end of 2011, hubby and I went on a whirlwind round the world trip, and when we returned, decided that it was time to start a family. Cue sexy lingerie, and lots of getting frisky, and then…. nothing. Month after month, we suffered the incredible lows that trying to conceive brought with it, until we landed at a fertility clinic. A multitude of tests, the complete loss of all dignity, OHSS, IUI, IVF, ICSI and a miscarriage left me battered and bruised (literally! #deminjections), but determined that here had to be a better way. So, I set about researching and devouring as much as I could about how to survive trauma, I went on a soul recharging trip to the back of beyond in Lombok, I connected with some of the best online guru’s around, and pretty much reached into the depths of my being to pull myself out of my funk, and came out a badass warrior who literally felt like I could take on the world.
And I did. Two years later, I was back on the saddle on a mission to ride this rollercoaster again and have a second child. We fell pregnant with our last embryo, but I had a pregnancy and childbirth that others would only describe in one word: traumatic. The short version is that I needed to race to the hospital and later woke up in critical care, missing my uterus and most of my cervix. Ya, that happened.
But you know what? I learnt my shit the first time around, and know how to give shitty situations the middle finger, so instead of feeling deeply traumatised, I'm actually feeling pretty good. And pretty lucky. Yep, lucky.
And today, I have two beautiful girls, Chloe and Olivia, as well as some of the most valuable life skills and mental habits, and I want the same for you.
Get out of your head and into the game
Discover how to calm the chaos in your head
Get clear on what your goals, your purpose and your why so that you can lift the muddled fog that is making you feel so indecisive about your journey
Turn off the nagging voice in our head that keeps us up at night thinking ‘what if’ and begin feeling positive about the possibilities ahead
Tap into unconscious beliefs that might be holding us back
Loosen our grip on always needing to control our situation
Discover how to solidify and infertility-proof your relationships and let go of the ones that don’t light us up
Feel good about the changes that have occurred to our friendships and family-dynamics
Release the guilt and resentment over our situation
Communicate like a boss
Begin to feel like a beautiful work in progress, rather than a hot, crying mess
Gain clarity around what you want in this
Come out of the brain fog and gain the ability to look at the situation with a bird’s eye view
Feel like you have the crystal ball you’ve been searching for that will give you a timeline
Create order out of the chaos in our heads
Bulletproof mindset (on autopilot!)
Start feeling #blessed again, rather than #FML
Discovering the power in positivity, and how to foster high vibes on autopilot
Stop feeling drained and gain your sparkle
Tapping into your emergency stash of strength
An emergency toolkit of strategies for the moments that send us crashing down - the facebook announcements, negative pregnancy tests and hurtful comments
An emergency toolkit of strategies
Embracing radical self care
Feel womanly and sexy again and NOT like a science experiment
How to look in the mirror and love what you see
How to accept the changes that your body is going through like a boss