There were two words on my fertility journey that used to make me feel more alone and hopeless than ever

And if I'm honest... also used to send my anxiety levels through the roof and make my blood boil.

You've probably been told the same thing by your family, work colleagues, partner... all with the best intentions, but it still stings, isolates you... and makes you feel like a flat out failure. "Just relax".

As if it was that easy. You feel like once upon a time you were happy, strong and resilient, but this fertility mess has sucked the life out of you.

You're used to being successful at everything you do, but here you are, a shadow of your former self because the one thing you want the most, is completely out of your control. It feels hopeless. And overwhelmingly sad. If only you had a crystal ball that would just tell you when this would all be over and you could get on with your life. But there is no crystal ball, so you're stuck in this nightmare with the demons in your head.

Maybe you were relaxed before, but this is your life on the line here! The road you're travelling down right now is drastically different to how you imagined your life unfolding.

Your partner isn't struggling the same way you are, and hates to see you this way, but has NO idea how to help you, and then there's your friends and family who you feel like you can never openly and honestly just download to because they say the wrong thing, they can't understand the pain you're in, and every conversation leads to a science lesson. And it's on your mind. Every. Single. Minute.

Just relaxing seems completely impossible. So here you are, alone with no advice you can grasp onto, and surrounded by doctors and scientists who treat everything so matter-of-factly, sinking deeper and deeper into hoplessness with each new cycle. You just want to be pregnant already!

That's exactly how I felt.

I bet you've spent so many nights Googling every single symptom and condition trying to find answers - something, anything they've missed, or a glimmer of hope.

I bet you've tried ALL the things trying to fall pregnant, manage your stress levels and move forward.

Maybe your journal is just collecting dust.

Maybe you've tried meditating, but don't feel like you're doing it right.

Maybe you've seen a therapist, but don't feel like they truly 'got it' or just gave you some cookie cutter advice.

I get it and I want to reassure you.

How you are feeling right now, is completely valid. Struggling to fall pregnant is just that. A struggle.

No, you are not screwing this up.

Maybe one of the reasons you haven't enrolled yet is because you feel like you've already invested in SO many things, but you're still at square A. I have been in your shoes, desperately searching for answers and feeling like I'd wasted tonnes of money in desperation.

I had incredible guilt about all the money I'd spent, and everything I felt *may* have been contributing to every negative cycle.

And it was like all the stress was compounding my stress. And I was paranoid that maybe I was harming my fertility in some way. Was it my diet? Was it my job? Was it my lifestyle? Was it the stress?

If that's you, I want to let you know a few things...

  1. You are not alone (or crazy)
  2. You can do something about it and end the 'investment roller coaster'
  3. You are human

It's all about rewriting your story and giving you a toolkit that [finally] feels complete so you don't need to keep investing.

You didn't have a roadmap before. You didn't know how to get to the finish line. So forgive yourself. 

This program is everything I wished I had on my journey and I created this program with you in mind.

Word on the Street...

"A month and a half ago I was feeling low, I wasn't feeling supported at work , and I didn't know how to process and face the news of my friend’s pregnancy announcement. I felt completely overwhelmed and derailed in life. I would wake up in the middle of the night and just cry. Things started to take a turn when I discovered this program. Just knowing that others out there can completely relate has been helpful. Plus, the modules and worksheets are helpful. And I love the Facebook group and the Vault! I’ve been feeling really good lately and definitely more empowered and equipped with some tools, tips and mantras to keep me focused and positive."
 - Jo

Just imagine this...

Instead of waking up in the morning wondering how the heck you're going to get through another day, you wake up feeling like strong, happy and empowered, and like you can tackle anything this journey (and life!) throws at you.

Instead of feeling like all the fear, anxiety, worry and rage is building up inside you with nobody who you can download to, you have the chance to connect with someone who not only gets it, but can help you get through it, and will connect you with a sisterhood of like minded women.

Instead of feeling like you're losing the connection with your partner, you rekindle the love and closeness you felt before, and can tap into a way to communicate with each other again.

Instead of feeling like there must be SOMETHING you're missing that is causing your infertility, you feel informed, armed and ready to take charge of your journey.

Instead of feeling like life is passing you by, you feel peaceful, confident and happy again.

The Fertility Warrior Intensive

A 6 week program for women who have been left battered and bruised by this fertility journey, but are now ready to regain control of their lives and pull themselves out of the darkness.

A 1 hour deep dive coaching call with me as we kick off the program to give you a personalised action plan and immediate support on your journey.

Valued at $179

6 weeks of High Touch, High Care Intimate and Private Group Coaching Training - we go through 6 life-changing modules that will help you discover more about yourself than ever before, set you up for BIG changes in your life, and boost your fertility.

Valued at $997

Membership to a Private Vault of Guest Expert Training Modules - think of how expensive it would be to individually see a Psychologist, a Brain Care Specialist, A sexual Empowerment Coach and more - I've got them right here for you, together!

Valued at $1,385

A SECRET, totally fun and active Facebook Group, focused on creating BIG change in a POSITIVE and uplifting way. Let go of the guilt, find your tribe and get to know others on this journey with you.

Valued at $197 p/y

LIVE Q+A sessions with me in our Facebook Group. Ask anything, get my tips, check in with everyone - like an awesome girls' night in!

Valued at $378

A Bespoke Yoga Series created by fellow Fertility Warrior and Yoga Teacher, Darrien Minnie.

Valued at $89

An ever growing series of meditations and beautifully designed digital affirmations to use as tools on your journey.

Valued at $37

Worksheets and exercises to help you uncover what is holding you back, track lifestyle changes essential to fertility and more.

Valued at $47

All up, that's $3,309 USD value, and you also receive ongoing access to the modules, and any new interviews, affirmations and meditations in The Vault. Pretty incredible, huh?

Discover a fertility survival plan to get you through everything this journey throws at you with positivity, resilience and all you need for ultimate success.

Join before the doors for this round close


Best Value

$379 USD
(approx $497 AUD/£285)
Pay in full - save $32

payment plan

$137 USD
(approx $173 AUD/£99)
3 x monthly payments

Here's what the research says about how Mind-Body Programs can improve your fertility...

1. A study by researchers from Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia, found that cognitive behavioural therapy can aid fertility by reducing anxiety, which often inhibits ovulation. A study by Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia took 16 women who had not had a period in six months. Half were introduced to cognitive behavioural therapy for 20 weeks and half were merely observed. At the end of this, six out of the eight women given CBT regained full fertility and two of them became pregnant within two months. In the eight women who didn't, only one recovered her fertility.

2. Another study showed that women who were undergoing IVF had a success rate of 52% when undergoing mind-body interventions (compared to only 20% in the control group).

3. A 2000 study showed that procedural stress, the stress experienced during treatment procedures, was found to negatively impact on the end points, that is the number of oocytes retrieved and fertilised.

4. Women undergoing IVF who were ‘worried’ about the medical aspects of their treatments, retrieved 20% less eggs (Klonoff-Cohen and Natarajan, 2004)

5. In a 1988 study, women undergoing IVF with donor insemination, those with higher levels of anxiety took much longer to conceive, and had higher miscarriage rates (Demytennaere, Nijs, Steeno and Konninckx, 1988)

6. A 1990 study compared 63 women about to undergo an IVF cycle. Those who attended a 2 week relaxation course, showed significantly improved success rates on their first cycle.

How does this sound?


We kick off with an in-depth discussion with me where we develop a bespoke plan for you before we we begin our 6 weeks of LIVE group coaching call, where I'll guide you through a some of the changes you can make that will have a BIG effect on not just your fertility, but your entire life, and we get this done, pronto! You'll receive worksheets to complete that will help you discover some big WHY and A-HA moments


LIVE Q+A sessions with me in the group. Listen to my tips, ask any questions, or just touch base with the other warriors. Think like a monthly girls' night in (but with chicks who ACTUALLY get it!)


Access to our SECRET (and totally Ah-mazing) Facebook Group. [FINALLY] an intimate group of cheerleaders who have each others back and where we conduct fun challenges, activities and provide next-level support. This group is unrivalled!


Access to The Vault. Where else can you have access to a bunch of experts all in one place - from Psychologists to Sexual Empowerment Coaches - all there to talk about the unique challenges we face, and how to help us survive. The Vault also has you covered with meditations, beautifully designed affirmations, printables and more!


Kick-ass fighting spirit and confidence because you finally invested in making yourself a priority and said enough is enough to feeling like shit #likeawarrior

Word on the Street...

"Robyn has such a peaceful voice! I really tried to sit with what she has taught and had some massive 'a-ha' moments. Anyway, it's great it really is. I just want to tell everyone I know who is struggling with this because I know they'll love it too. Robyn’s calm, practical approach helped me to see things with more clarity then I ever have before. Each module really made me stop and think and I’ve come away with so many resources for a positive mindset. I feel armed, refreshed and ready to tackle this journey and whatever it sends my way."
 - Kiarra

Discover a fertility survival plan to get you through everything this journey throws at you with positivity, resilience and all you need for ultimate success.

Meet our team of experts...

Best Value

$379 USD
(approx $497 AUD/£285)
Pay in full - save $32

payment plan

$137 USD
(approx $173 AUD/£99)
3 x monthly payments

Word on the Street...

"Thanks for your support. It really does help to be a part of this group. I don't feel so alone anymore! You're truly a special person to do this for all of us warriors."
 - Catherine

Word on the Street...

"I have been through the roughest part of my journey so far, maybe even my rock bottom. Just happened to land during the intensive program. The program has been a toolbox I could go back to when I’m having my oh shit panic moments. Not to mention having the back up of my fellow intensive warriors and Robyn to be right there along with me."
 - Amee

By the end of the program, you'll have:

A toolkit of resources you can come back to in the 'oh sh*t panic moments' with knowledge on how to manage anxiety and panic moments, backed by professional experts.

Much less overwhelm and an increased level of calm and confidence - like you've started to rediscover the person you were before, and gained some kick-ass confidence.

A sense of clarity about how long you're willing to try for, what is working for you on your journey and what isn't - and the ability to drop the things that aren't working (without the guilt).

A feeling of reinvigoration for your relationship, your life, together with the ability to see your life goals more clearly than ever before - and a reassurance that everything will work out.

Best Value

$379 USD
(approx $497 AUD/£285)
Pay in full - save $32

payment plan

$137 USD
(approx $173 AUD/£99)
3 x monthly payments

Word on the Street...

"The programme for me has been so good! I’ve loved having something positive to focus on whilst on the fertility journey instead of always feeling negative and upset. I feel so much better about this journey whatever the outcome is."
 - Jen

Robyn Birkin Fertility Coach
Robyn Birkin

Hi, I'm Robyn

Hi, I’m Robyn Birkin, a fertility coach, motivational speaker, writer and fertility warrior. I’ve made it my mission to ensure that women don’t suffer through infertility and trouble conceiving like I did. This is the program I wish I had when I was in the depths of despair.

After hitting rock bottom on my journey, I connected with some of the best experts around, studied a range of modalities from positive psychology to an Intro to Reproduction and pretty much reached into the depths of my being to pull myself out of my funk, and came out feeling like I could take on the world.

And I now spend my time helping Type A, women, just like myself to let go of control, ditch the anxiety, and forge ahead on their fertility journey with confidence, joy and primed for success.

What do the modules cover?

Every session, module, Q+A and interview is aimed at helping you not only overcome the emotional burden of trying to conceive, but help you ensure that your body is primed for pregnancy. This is a holistic program and weaved into our sessions we cover essential topics of sleep, exercise, diet and stress to help you feel like you're supported, empowered, calm and confident.

Get out of your head and into the game

Discover how to calm the chaos in your head and get razor clear on your goals, your purpose and your why, so that you can lift the muddled fog that is making you feel so indecisive about your journey. 

Together, we'll turn off the nagging voice in our head that keeps us up at night thinking ‘what if’ and begin feeling positive about the possibilities ahead, tap into unconscious beliefs that are holding us back, and gently let go of our tight grip on control.

Relationship Rescue

Discover how to solidify and infertility-proof your relationships and let go of the ones that don’t light us up (without the guilt!), feel good about the changes that have occurred to our friendships and family-dynamics.

We'll work on strategies to spice up our sex lives and foster stronger bonds with our significant other, as well as release any resentment we feel over our situation, and learn to communicate like a boss.

Redefining success

Begin to feel like a beautiful work in progress, rather than a hot, crying mess. Together we'll lift the brain fog and gain clarity around what you want in this life and see failure with a completely different outlook.

We'll learn the science behind why we continually get down on ourselves and help you feel like you have the crystal ball you’ve been searching for and help you create order out of the chaos inside.

Bulletproof mindset (on autopilot!)

This is the lazy girls guide to feeling better, and the science behind how small changes and tweaks in your life can add up to massive changes in anxiety and coping skills. 

We'll explore the power in positivity, and how to foster high vibes on autopilot, and start our day with energy and vigor.

Tapping into your emergency stash of strength

An emergency toolkit of strategies for the moments that send us crashing down - the facebook announcements, negative pregnancy tests and hurtful comments and the moments of panic. You'll receive my step by step instructions for how to manage these situations as well as the WHY and what exactly is happening in our bodies at this time, to help take you from a constant state of constant state of overwhelm and anxiety to feeling more calm and resilient.

The Ripple Effect of Self Care

This is no airy fairy module. This is where we talk science and how simple changes to your routine can not only help you feel womanly and sexy again and NOT like a science experiment, but how certain things can begin to have a ripple effect and improve our relationships, our anxiety AND our fertility.

We'll talk about strategies to manage the overwhelm and the voice inside your head that is telling you you're not good enough, and [finally] be able to look at yourself in the mirror and like what you see.

Best Value

$379 USD
(approx $497 AUD/£285)
Pay in full - save $32

payment plan

$137 USD
(approx $173 AUD/£99)
3 x monthly payments


My programs are driven by one fundamental principle - to deliver support and light bulb moments, and if you are on the fence about joining, I want to make it as easy as possible for you to say 'yes' to this program, and to yourself [for a change] because I know just how powerful these lessons can be on your journey.

That's why we have the Fertility Warrior Intensive money-back guarantee.

Join now, give the program a shot and attend the live calls, and if, after 14 days you you have not seen any meaningful change in the way you're coping, thinking or feeling on your journey, we'll refund your money. All of it.

Just flick us an email at, along with your Fertility Warrior planner entries and completed worksheets, so that we know you gave it a shot, and we'll refund your money, pronto.

Frequently Asked Questions

What happens if I fall pregnant during our coaching together?

That would be AMAZING! And just quietly 50% of the women in our pilot program fell pregnant DURING the program. I know. I can barely believe it either. The stuff we talk about, our guest interviews - everything - is relevant for when you fall pregnant too. And when you fall pregnant, it's like a whole new set of anxieties come into play, so pregnant, or not pregnant, this is perfect for you. When this happens for you, I may also have some sneaky bonus resources for you;-)

Will we discuss lifestyle strategies for optimising fertility such as diet?

Yes. You will receive a personalised action plan during our first session, with details on how you can optimise your lifestyle to improve your fertility and we can discuss anything and everything in our LIVE Q+A Sessions within the group. I take a holistic approach, and believe in looking at the whole person (body and mind) to make a profound impact going forward. 

What happens after I join?

You'll receive a welcome email and we'll organise a time for our deep dive call together.

I've already spent SO much money doing ALL the things. What makes this different?

Oh lady, I hear you. A few years back, I was at a fork in the road, and as you can see, took the path that led me in this direction and it scary to make that decision. But I bet you don't think twice about dropping a fortune on acupuncture and OPKs... because for whatever reason, in our minds, we prioritise the physical stuff over the emotional/mental stuff.

I want you to also consider the cost of NOT working with me. If you've got this far down the page, you KNOW deep inside that something is missing and Mind-body programs have been shown to dramatically improve fertility and IVF success rates, as well as lower the rates of miscarriage, so this could mean the difference, between six IVF cycles and three. Remember: I've been there, and we can totally go there and bounce your treatments and tests around too.

If you're at rock bottom now, consider how much more of the emotional toll you can take, and how much time you have on your side. It might be that NOW is the time to take a leap of faith.

Consider the incredible value of this program also, and the individual cost of having access to so many professionals and resources. I've worked really hard to put together a holistic program that will help you feel confident that you can stop needing to continually invest in all the things. Similar programs cost approximately 3x the price and do not contain as much value.

Please also be aware that the price will be increasing significantly next round.

How much time do I need to commit?

We have a weekly 1 hour group coaching session, and a little bit of time in between completing exercises, as well as our LIVE Q+A sessions. My guest expert interviews are available to you, to listen to at your leisure, either during our coaching of after. As someone who has come from a frantic and fast-paced corporate job, busy has been my middle name. but trust me when I say "You are where your focus is" - so if your focus is on your job, so be it.... but if your focus is on nurturing yourself to create a cozy home for a baby, well then....

What if I can’t make the coaching calls?

Our coaching calls take place once a week and will guide you through six powerful modules during your time in the program. I highly recommend that you make the time to join this call – after all, you’ve made the investment to be part of the program. But, in the event that you can’t make a call, there’ll be a replay.

At the end of each call, you’ll also have the chance to listen to a replay though, just in case you got caught up.

How long will it take to complete program?

The coaching program includes six modules delivered over 6 – 7 weeks, which is just enough time for us to go through one entire cycle so we can experience the ups and downs together. During this time, we’ll be in touch regularly. You’ll also receive ongoing access to The Vault (minimum 6 months), that contains all my guest interviews (and is being added to regularly, so it will be like the support never ends.) 

Plus, like a good wine or cheese (but on the totally ok for fertility list!), some of these lessons will marinade and get better with time – and they’ll last a lifetime, and our SECRET Facebook Group will be available to support you.

Will anyone know I’ve signed up?

Nope. Only the people you tell, and other people who are going through the program with you. We conduct the calls one on one and on group conferencing software, and our Facebook group is secret, so it can be our little secret.

Do I need to be doing IVF?

Nope. You can be anywhere in your fertility journey, you can be doing IVF, IUI, or still trying naturally, although I don’t recommend this for women who have only just started trying to conceive. My recommendation is that this is for women who have been trying for 6+ months with no luck. 

What if I already have one child?

Secondary infertility sucks too. I know many women who coasted through conception for their first (and even second) child, only to struggle with their second (or third) and it hit. Hard. I think sometimes when we conceived another child easily in the past, we expect it will work again, and when you already have another child, there is less time to think about yourself. Good news – this course is perfect for both women who have no children,or women with one or more children.

Best Value

$379 USD
(approx $497 AUD/£285)
Pay in full - save $32

payment plan

$137 USD
(approx $173 AUD/£99)
3 x monthly payments